[Core] Fix random port conflict from dashboard agent

[Superskyyy]

This PR fixes an issue where the dashboard agent default port 52365 could be taken by other components if unlucky. The changes both prevent this specific case and is future proof now. Closes:#45484

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[Superskyyy]

oops, local lint didn't show the problem. gonna fix it tomorrow.